Effective self-defense for women very first starts using the mindset and belief in herself that she does not deserve to become raped, harassed or abused in anyway, shape or form. A woman’s ability to recognize impending danger and the warning signs of danger can also be of prime significance in reducing her risk to harmful circumstances.
So what happens when a woman finds herself in a harmful scenario? Can you envision what her capability to defend herself effectively will be if she did not have this fundamental perception in herself that she is really worth it and does not deserve abusive treatment.
Without this perception structure her odds of successfully defending herself and possibly her loved ones is diminished. With this particular belief system in location and her determination and dedication to survive she has the starting foundation of productive defense. With this particular determination and commitment she now has the next necessary ingredient to defend herself and that ingredient is courage. Bravery to stand up for oneself with dedication and determination is a really effective character trait for a female to possess however it can only exist if she believes that she is worth it.
Courage is not the absence of fear but how a woman responds to fear. When a woman realizes that she is in a potentially dangerous situation of course fear has the ability to overwhelm her and paralyze her. With courage the ability to appropriately respond to the given situation increases her likelihood of disarming a potentially dangerous situation before it escalates into something physical. As a martial artist we practiced dealing with dangerous situations all the time. By doing so we work on programming our courage response to neutralize dangerous situations. When a woman practices speaking up for herself or others or practices standing up in the face of fear her level of courage can start to grow in the face of adversity.
Courage is the ability to respond to take action which is a proactive frame of mind. This frame of mind is empowering because now the woman is in control of herself and may be able to control the situation. When a woman reacts fear is the dominating emotion and the situation is in control of her. A reactive state of mind puts the woman on the defensive and she assumes the role of a victim and now something is happening to her.
To decrease your risk of possibly harmful situations practice responding in your own thoughts to an imagined threat. You will start to really feel empowered by your imagined responses and that will help in building your courage. Inside your imagination exercise taking control of a harmful situation and discover how you feel. This will help to alleviate the fear dependent emotions that can overwhelm women in times of adversity.
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